A mother’s absence is felt for the first time when a daughter gets married and leave her house to live with her husband.When a girl leaves her home after married a mother will get all the necessary things for her daughter including basic clothes, kitchen utensils and what ever the daughter needs or wants from her mom. But when a girl has lost her mom and taken care by her siblings, hardly her basic needs are given priority or no one asks her what she needs before she starts her new life with her husband.
Something
glamour about the sisters in the family, they will make sure the sister dressed
well during her wedding reception. To outsiders the sister must look nice and beautiful
saree during the function, but her basic needs no one bothers
to ask her. This is a very common atmosphere which happens in conservative
families.Where the girl was proposed to the family choice of groom, and she
must nod her head to please her family and her relatives.
The second time the girl misses her mom or feel her mothers absence is
when she is pregnant and live far away from any of her family members, No one
to prepare the food she wish to taste or try, or to cook special during her
conceiving period. What the girl does is she prepares what ever she wants to
eat or taste.
Even though she has sisters, no one has
time to visit her or bring food she yearns to eat during pregnancy years. After
she delivers her baby, no one to cook or to help her with her baby. Fate really
plays important role in certain ladies life, where life long these ladies
destined to be on their own and live life as orphans and being helpless in the
presence of their siblings. After experiencing so much hurdles in life, this
lady learns to live a life which is known as “her family” husband and her
children. The rest mean nothing to her and
doesn’t make sense in her life. As grew grew older, the mothers care which she
has been missing during her younger days, she gets fully from her kids who
treats her like their queen. So the hardship and hurdles and the pain vanish in
her kids love attention. But at times she recalls her moments spent with her
mom, during her moms last month in her life.
